Genetics and More

I would like to think I am a smart person. So why it is that as soon as the genetic counselor started talking I got lost? It literally sounded like “womp womp womp.” I must have said can you spell that several times and think I asked the same questions like 3-4 times in trying to understand it all.

I also had not prepared myself for the possibility that I was a carrier for anything and that this was just a formality. So imagine my surprise as I learned more about my genetic makeup and of course had a crash course review of a biology lesson in how genes work. One thing is for sure, having this enlightening conversation made clear just how important it is to have this done.

I am grateful that I had an amazing genetic counselor who took the time to make sure that I understood everything that was said. As well as go above and beyond, to help me determine the testing that had been done on my donor choices to determine compatibility.

As for compatibility, I have also learned that sperm banks do not have an expanded panel of testing on all donors (mainly those that donated before a certain time). Which means, I lose donor options. And I know, the conversation is if I was having this baby naturally with a partner, I would never know. But as the old saying goes, when you know better you do better! And since I know, I will definitely be making the decision to ensure donor is a good match!